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female
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30-35,
*lways.confused.
writes: I like him but I'm not sure whether I really love him. maybe i do... but the fact that his family background aint that good that my mother will get me married to him makes me think again whether ive made the right choice. I've got plenty of time to see if hes the "one"... but if he aint the one, it will be difficult for me to break up with him because i have made a commitment to him... and also because he might blackmail me by telling my family that we had this thing... and im scared about that... and so maybe because of that i try in seeing things in him to tell myself that hes the one... but really im not sure... i dont know what to do. We`ve been together for 8 months. Help! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Ven +, writes (17 October 2010):
Don't ever fall for the blackmail in a relationship. You will be miserable for years. If he wants to tell your secrets, it will only really cause you grief for a short period of time and then you can move on and focus on meeting someone truly special.
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