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26-29,
*andyCurves
writes:Why cant I look him in the eyes?There's a guy at school who always tries to catch my eye. I can always feel him watching me from across the room and stuff, if I'm honest it scares me stiff even though I like it.He does things like sitting close to me (sends me sooo many signals)he stares at me and it seems like hes always looking for my attention. But I just cant look into his eyes.We have a history but Im really trying to move on after he rejected me a couple of months ago. I hate bumping into him because I get all hot and stuff.I remember once I bumped into him unexpectedly and our eyes met, my heart just dropped and I couldnt breath.It probably lasted like 2-3 seconds but it felt like time expired.When he stares , he looks deeply into my eyes as if hes searching for something. It really scares me.So I try to avoid him at all times to avoid feeling like this. But the thing is- I do like him, actually alot. I just cant look into his eyesWhats wrong with me?
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reader, BigRuss +, writes (17 October 2010):
There is nothing wrong with you darlin, This is simply an "intense emotional interaction". Most people call it Lust some go on to call it Love and some simply call it infatuation.
You will get used to feeling like it find ways of dealing with it. It takes time and it will always happen, you see someone you sink inside, feel week at the knees and have a pit in your stomach.
Boys also feel this too. The madness is trying to get two people together where this happens to both of them.
You will experience this through your entire life and it can be fun when you get used to it.
as daft as it sounds .. look at breathing techniques and when you have controlled the feeling and got used to it, Look him back in the eyes with the same intensity and if you see him "melt" your on to a winner, if not keep doing it .. he will soon lose interest.
The key is you will have equal control of the emotional power play between the both of you.
hope this helps.
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