A
female
age
30-35,
*roubledgurl
writes:Am so tired of all this, i feel like crying, i have never been lucky with guys and can't find any reason why. ok am 18, tall, slim and fair in complexion, people say am pretty so why do the guys i like not seem attracted to me and the two guys that really love me are the ones that i don't have any feelings for... Ok, now am dating this guy that i kinda have a crush on but it's a long distance relationship and he is not helping matters at all, cos he doesn't call or text, i've tried talking to him about it but to no avail, am so tired of the relationship and am thinking of breaking up with him the next time we talk... Am i about doing the right thing. Thanks
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reader, Ven  +, writes (17 October 2010):
You need to do what makes you happy. At this point I think you should end things with your current man, and work on boosting your self esteem.
Exercise, join a club or a school or a community that you can grow mentally and emotionally in. Get your mind off of guys and focus on doing the amazing things you may only be able to do now.
And let the men come to you. The only ones worth keeping are the ones that want you.
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