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*hortylover19
writes:I need urgent advice! Me and my ex broke up 3 months ago. and im still hurting and worse of all i been hearing rumors that im not sure if him or his friend are saying that i sleep around and that i lost my virginity with him and i dont know what else, its gotten to the point where my mother conforted me. i didnt even know that these rumors were going around. What should i do confront him or let it go? I'm scared to to do so cuz he is always with his homies I just want them to stop saying things that arent true. everything happened becasue this homie or 2nd best told him that i had slept with him and that one reason we broke up but that isnt true. I want to confront him and tell him you know wat lets go to doctor and i will take a test to see if im a virgin or not and if i am yall better stop talking shit about me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010): hii...i had something extremely similar to this happen to me earlier this year. i went to a basketball game at my ex's school, and he informed one of my mutual friends that he had heard that i had lost my virginity to him. then, his best friend told me that i had also slept with him. i don't know who started the rumors or whatever, but i do know that i found them absolutely hilarious...because they just showed how little those people really knew about me (the whole reason the relationship with my ex ended was due to lack of sex). anyways...my advice to you is to do the exact same thing that i did. i just laughed it off and let it go. don't confront your ex, don't confront his friends, don't stand in the middle of the hallway at school and scream until you're blue in the face...just let it go. rumors (nor the people who start them) are not worth your energy. you know the truth, and those who love you and really know you as a person know the truth as well. and really, that's all that matters. ")good luck, and God bless,~sarsar~
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 October 2010):
 Ok you need to stand up for yourself shoulders back and head straight go up to him even if it is in front of his friends and ask him even if they are listening why he is going around telling people that you have slept around look him straight in the eye and tell him that you are still a virgin and you are glad that you didnt lose it with him as he obviously cant get any women when he has to make up lies about sleeping with you. Tell him he is acting very immature and needs to grow up. Then just calmly walk away confident and never bother with them again.
Am afraid there is no test that can be done to prove that you are still a virgin. And you shouldnt need to prove yourself anyway, i hope that your family trust you enough to know that you are telling the truth and dont worry this will all blow over soon just dont talk to your ex after you confront him. He is not worth your time or energy.
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