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writes:I'm a little confused by the problem because in most cases a girl cuts her boyfriend off of sex, but in my case my boyfriend cuts me off! sometimes its for a few nites but there has been times where I'd only get it maybe once a month if I'm lucky. he always has a different excuse when i ask him, and he dont come off to be the least bit gay....? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010): He may dealing with some past issues and have insecurities about them. He may also be concerned about his performance and doesnt have the confidence to be with you in such a way. Only way to be sure is to just speak with him. Communication is key in a relationship. Relay your thoughts and I hope things work out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010): Through past experience its because his mind is elsewhere ask him to be honest
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2010): Well its usually aftr the smallest disagreement..or sometimes outa the blue and when he refuses to have sex with me he acts distant all day,wk, month ect. Im open to try ne thng to please him sometimes i thnk my kinkyness is too much for him. But it wldnt b that cus he treats me like im not even his girl and acts annoyed when i want to knw why... Thnks 4 ths convo btw..
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2010): When you do have sex is it good ? Sometimes you need to switch it get a little wild. Men like that, when u pleasure them fulfil there needs. he'll be begging for more (;
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reader, Eskim0  +, writes (17 October 2010):
What do you mean he 'cuts you off from sex'? is it after you guys have a fight or because he's too tired? or...we may need some more details than this to give you an accurate answer.
If he's just 'cock-blocking' you for the sake of it it may pay to talk to him about this. Let him know how you feel when he does this and that it hurts your feelings.
How long have you guys been together? Because sex is a really important part of having a normal functioning relationship.
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