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writes:hello guys, i really need every single bit of advice and feedback from you guys. I've been with my LDR gf for 2 years, we knew each other for over 5 years but we just got back together after i went abroad for studies, so i never even had the chance to kiss her or get that close and intimate with her, anyway lately she just disappeared for over 4 days and got back telling me that she doesnt need a bf anymore, even though that girl loves me like crazy or at least thats what i thought.I mean it was crazy, one day she used to tell me how crazy she is about me and then the very next day she just feels like she doesnt love me anymore :S which is crazy , I'm frickin in love with that girl, she means the world to me. We didnt talk for the last 4 days :S she just didnt show up online again so I guess we're done. I tried to do some things in order to get over her, I went with some friends out, had some girls, I even slept with a girl I picked up from a club just for the sake to get over my LDR girlfriend but its not working :S I'm crazy about her, we even had plans to get married and we even had a name for our baby :S I mean we were so close and spoke about everything, I just dont get why she would just wanna leave me like this. She got back after the 4 days and she told me that she was with someone else during that time, but believe me guys, I know her so much to even doubt that she's cheating on me. She's just not that type at all. I don't know why she's doing this to me but I don't see myself without her at all. I don't even imagine her kissing someone else!!!! and I havent even kissed her and then someone else will just get her after me and do everything with her!! it's freaking me out. I think I made a mistake by begging her to get back to me, I was telling her how much I love her and how much I need her but she was so bitchy to me she never spoke to me like that :S I don't know what to do anymore. I don't know what to do now, I'm never gonna be able to get over her, she's my everything, I keep reading over and over all our texts and emails, it's crazy. we're so much in love, I don't know how she could just change her feelings for me like this with no reason!!I need some ways to get over her, anything,thnx a lot guys
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reader, micromax  +, writes (17 October 2010):
 hey u r so much in love wid this girl bt trust me she is not in love wid u, true feelings of a girl will never change no matter wat happens..the biggest mistake u did is that begging her to cum back into ur lyf,thats making her fly high coz galz love it if guys begg them cry for them nd pleed them.i no it coz i m a gal nd i love it wen my bf says he cant live widout me...jst delete all the msgs her pics all the past memories..flush them off i m sure she is wid some1 else nw bt she vl greatly regret it later..jst msg her saying "i tried alot to get u back but i think its all over nw jst b happy werevr u r nd i am over u nw " than if she realy loves u she vl call u or text u back if nt evn she vl msg u smething lyk wat u tld nd after her reply u vll feel very better coz u vl realise u loved a gal who never loved u..good luck
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reader, Ven  +, writes (17 October 2010):
Sleeping and partying with other women certainly won't help you get over her.
Change the pace in your life. Change locations, or change jobs, or change hobbies. Get a different circle of friends that have different common interests. Take classes, work out, or travel.
Get your mind off of women period. That is what will help you the most.
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