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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:There is a guy I have liked for a long time. A few years ago, someone told him without my permission, and he didn't feel the same way. Things became awkward and we lost our friendship.Recently, we've rebuilt our friendship, and he's started treating me differently. He apologised for how things went last time, looks at me a lot when he sees me (my friends noticed this before I did), often makes suggestions to go out and when he was drunk, he told my friend he is unsure how he feels about me.I can't help but hope a little that he feels the same as I feel about him, and some of my friends think he does. Though, I'm really scared that he just sees me as a good friend because that is what happened last time. Is telling him the right thing to do, or should I just forget it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010): Why do I keep reading on here posts from women saying "men love the chase". Um, a lot of us DON'T like the chase actually. As I posted elsewhere, boys may enjoy chaing, MEN don't do games.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (18 October 2010):
 Not if he's been told before- no..
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010): Well in my opinion you shouldn't.. It does still have that slight risk of screwn everything up... Plus he already knows. Actually dont pay any attention to them signs cus he has to notice your signs and you dont want to look desperate. Guys like the chase. Be sexy - not flirty, its less intimidating then straight up being quickly serious and expecting a full relationship..
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