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*eeRee
writes:I have recently started at university which is about 1 hour 30 mins away from my boyfriend and were both finding it quite hard. He is now starting to question if he can handle a long distance relationship. I love him so much and im torn because i would give all of this up to be with him because i know he's the one.What do i do?? Stay at uni and lose the guy i love?? Or give it up and have a future with the guy i love???Help me please!!!!
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reader, ReeRee +, writes (17 October 2010):
ReeRee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much for your help :) I think your right if he wants it as much as i do we will be able to make it work :) xxxxx
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reader, ReeRee +, writes (17 October 2010):
ReeRee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your help :) I think your right i need to say to him this is something i have to do and i want more than anything to make this work but he's gonna have to fight as hard as me and want it as much :) :) xxxxx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 October 2010):
University - period. Another guy will come along. Another shot at the life you want to live will not.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 October 2010):
 Ok first of dont give up on uni, because you will be throwing your future away and you may later regret it if things dont work out with your boyfriend. At the end of the day if he felt the same as you did then he would do everything in his power to make things work between the both of you. An hour and a half isnt to far am sure you can meet up at the weekend. Would it not be possible for him to move to were you are?
Tell him that you love him a lot and you see yourself spending the rest of your life with him its just that right now you need to do this course to build up your future, tell him you dont want to throw your relationship away and that you will do everything in your power to make it work but he also needs to put in hard work as well.
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