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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:dear cupid my ex and i have been on and off for five years. everytime he is the one that breaks up with me, but we always get back together with in a year or two. Both of us have been with others, him more than me, but i always compare other guys to him with out meanign to. But For some reason I just cant let him go. i wonder if hes lying when he says that he wants to be with me. its just really crappy life situtations getting in our way. He does get in some trouble, but ive been there for some of it and it was just the wrong place at the wrong time. Lately he has started talking to me again. And i just wanna know, if it makes since for me to be holding on to him.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 October 2010):
 No its not fair on you to be holding on to him, do you want to be with a guy for the rest of your life that cant make a commitment and keep breaking your heart? You need to get rid of him completely unless he is ready to make a commitment.
Ask him straight out if he would like to get with you but tell him this is his last chance and if he ever breaks up with you again then its over for good and you need to cut all contact with him and never contact him again.
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