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writes:Hi i am in a predicament at the moment. I have only ever been with girls and had gf's ext. but for a few years now all I ever watch is gay porn and have fantasised myself with guys alot, I've even done some things to simulate a guy if you know what I mean. I have asked dearcupid a while back what I should do and whether i'm gay or straight ext. A few people told me not to label myself very quickly and I would never really know untill I try sex with a guy. I still love being with girls but this gay side of me keeps coming out I suddenly am really horny for guys then after i've ejaculated I feel really dirty and can't stand guys. I'm a little confused to say the least. I just need to know what to do now and where to go next. There is this girl I really like, but she has a bf (but thats another story) should I continue persuing a girl I really like with all these other feeling around? Should I try it with a guy to see how it is as i'm extremely turned on by guys? Advice please thankyou.
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reader, niki20  +, writes (17 June 2009):
 studentoflife is right if you ignore these feeling they will rise again. if you want to expieriment then do it. if you dont like it then you dont like it. just be aware of all the std/sti i wouldnt purse anyone untill you find out what you want first. you can make someone else happy unless your happy first.
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reader, Tinysplatty +, writes (17 June 2009):
 Hey,
Really, nobody is going to be able to tell you what you are. You have to figure this out for yourself. It is very common at your kind of age to have mixed feelings, and you will probably not be able to determine your sexual orientation at this early stage in your life. It is true when people say don't be in a hurry to label yourself.
So how do you figure it out? Well the answer is to experiment. Don't knock it till you tried it right? Maybe you should try hooking up with a guy. It might totally change your opinions and feelings. Just make sure the other guy knows that you aren't down for anything serious just yet. It sounds to me like you are bi curious (curious about having sex with people of both genders). But yeah...the more you experiment, the more experience you get, the easier it will be to figure out what you truly want and who you truly are. Its the only way...you won't get anywhere by just sitting there and wondering. Of course, please dont feel obliged to do anything you don't want to do. Just go with what feels right and don't be afraid to experiment, cause it really will help you.
Good luck!
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reader, betty_black +, writes (17 June 2009):
 Does been with a woman make you feel as horny as been with a man? Is it an equal attraction you have or are you lying about it to make yourself feel better? Because maybe you are gay but in denial, find it disgusting and cover it up by going with girls. Stop tricking your mind and just accept it.
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (17 June 2009):
 If you don't get it out of your system now, the desire to try with a man will rise again in the future and you might have a girlfriend who'll get hurt.
It might be best to get your sexuality figured out before starting something with someone.
You might be Bi, gay, straight, I don't know but make sure you do.
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