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writes:I am just after some advice, I was hurt badly when I was younger and now I find hard to trust me husband. I hate being like this. It seems like vicious circle all time. I want attention he wont give to me as I moan at him an make him unhappy. However now I am about to loose him and I don't want him to go. I need help sorting this out, I want to change, I don't want to keep messing up our marriage when I love him so much. If some could give me some advice be grateful thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): I dont understand why you being his first have anything to do with your "urge" to cheat. Dont do unto others whatever you dont want done to you dear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): heya.
i had the same problem when i was younger, and now i am married. it still effects our marriage, but i now look to the future and forget about the past. listen to what your husband has to say about how he feels to you, and even though you may not want to beileve what he is saying because of your past, ask your self ' if he didnt care and love me, then why would he have married me?' thats what i do, and it helps me. if he doesnt know about your past, tell him, and this way you can both work on the problems you may have... talking to him will really help :)
Hope this helps you
xx
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