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writes:Hi all. Ok so i met up wit a old friend from high skool and we were both in relationships but me and my bf broke up not bcuz of my old friend so abt two weeks later he broke up with his gf (claims they fought over something petty) so were supposed to go out this weekend. he usually texts me everyday but yesterday he didnt at all but gets mad at me when i dont text him and he told me that two yrs ago he thought he was in love with me but we really didnt know each other to well so i asked him abt it and he said jus bein around me made him fall in love with me. I really like him so should i go out with him and should i be mad bcuz he hasnt texted me in almost two days
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (17 June 2009):
 I don't know if you should go out with him just yet. If they fought over something petty and broke up, he may get back with her soon. Give it some time.
And you should be angry, not because he hasn't texted you in almost 2 days, but because he holds you to standards that he doesn't hold for himself. If he wants to be with you, make it clear to him that anything he tries to put on you he needs to follow himself. Or tell him that if he doesn't have to text you everyday, you don't have to text him everyday. Or just decide what you want to do, period, and don't let his anger control you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): you're welcome. And sorry, you weren't listed as a followup.
Even if you're used to it everyday, i think if you get mad at him, he will get an impression of you that you are very tempermental. People respond better to patience, even if you have to kind of fake it.
But don't give up yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): thx for the advice and fyi he usually txts me everyday i guess im kinda used to it. thx once again it really helped
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): Two days is not a very long time to not text someone. I mean, he probably has things to do..
Why don't you text him?
And if you both like each other and inspired each other to break up with the people you were already with, then I don't see why you shouldn't go out with him.
~SY.
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