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writes:ok well.. im 6 months pregnant, been going with my boyfriend for a year and a half and our relationship is great hes really excited about the new arrival, hes loving caring and affectionate towards me, he tells me how much he loves me all the time and seems really happy. the only thing is he never wants sex anymore ! he,ll try and avoid it but if i wanted it he wouldnt refuse either because i think he knows that would hurt my feelings! hes wasnt exactly a sex addict before i got pregnant but he would usually want it around once or twice a week.ive ask him before he got embarrased and said sumfn about hes scared cause im pregnant but i dont want to make a big deal or it would just pressure him and make things awkward ! i know hes not cheating! any other suggestions ?thanks
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reader, niki20  +, writes (17 June 2009):
 my husband wouldnt have sex w/me when i was around your term. he was scared his penis would hurt the baby. most guys think this way i believe :) goofy men. but you should bring him to your next ob app. and have the dr explain that its ok to have sex when your pregnant. it should put him at ease. or even just call her/him and put em on speaker phone
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reader, cherry cherry boom boom +, writes (17 June 2009):
well I could understand why he's scared he doesn't want to hit the baby he loves you too much to do that so you can't force him to have sex with you just explain to him the baby is safe. This ya girl, peace.
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reader, laura585 +, writes (17 June 2009):
Maybe he is just afraid that sex isnt safe while your pregnant. But it is! Look up articles on the net about it and print them out so he will know for sure that he's not going to hurt the baby. Maybe he's just uncomfortable with the idea that there is a baby in your belly, talk it out with him... You've been together a year and a half by now he shouldnt be embarrased to talk about ur sex life, break down that barrier so yall can have honest and open discussions. :)
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