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I found a ladys deodarant in his draw!

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Question - (17 June 2009) 9 Answers - (Newest, 18 June 2009)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

so.... this weekend i went to sleepover at ma bfs place. anyway i foynd a ladies deodarant in his drawer and i really dont know wat to make of it.he said he didnt know who it belonged. anyway i thru it out but now am reall wondering is he having other girls ova

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A male reader, GrimmReality United States +, writes (18 June 2009):

GrimmReality agony auntI suggest you start walking up and down the street smelling every female's armpits until you find the scent in a witchunt sponsored by Proctor & Gamble.

If you think that last paragraph was nuts, please understand that you may in fact be getting way ahead of yourself here. You better get some more concrete evidence before accusing him.

If you find a stocking, earring, panties, bra, A Keg of FDS etc then I would be wiggin...but I dlet this one ride for now.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009):

lets be clear- he is NOT using it. and you know it. yes, your man is cheating. and go bust him. game over. time to move on to a real man who will be faithful.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009):

it may be hes cheating

or something as innocent as he has sensitive skin and is embarrassed of telling you he uses a womans deodorant.

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A female reader, betty_black United Kingdom +, writes (17 June 2009):

betty_black agony auntit could even be his and hes too scared to tell you cos its womens or whatever, some men are weird like that.

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A male reader, StudentOfLife Canada +, writes (17 June 2009):

StudentOfLife agony auntCould be from past relationship, I moved since me and my ex broke up and I still find some of her stuff in my room at times.

If he says he doesn't know, it might be true. He might have friends that come over and forgot her deodorant.

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A female reader, jalmetha United States +, writes (17 June 2009):

jalmetha agony auntyou can casualy ask him, but it may be nothing. I have a friend who uses womens deodorant too because he hates that musky like smell that men's have.

I hope it's nothing.

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (17 June 2009):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntYou never know. He could be using it?

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A female reader, betty_black United Kingdom +, writes (17 June 2009):

betty_black agony auntmaybe it was a friends that stayed over and left it a while ago and hes completely forgotton, or an ex girlfriend and he didnt even know it was there. Its not like youve found some other girls underwear in his bedroom or anything, just chill out.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009):

You asked him, he answered... now dont harp on about the matter. If you feel he might be cheating on you you will find other evidence, so just leave things as they are... for the moment.

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