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female
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30-35,
*acyLace
writes:my guy is into sex and anal, and he says the next time we meet up he wants me to try me fingering him and he wants me to try to use a dildo on him. im ok with that but he does the sex and talks about it. i dont know how to respond and sound sexy with it? he wants me to say stuff about using the dildo on him. but iv never done it before so i dont know wat to say. any advise on wat to say back to him?
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reader, lexstar  +, writes (18 June 2009):
it can be hard to get into, its much easier when your turned on and really wanting sex
you should use lots of descriptive words, just tell him exactly what you want to do, how you'll do it, and how you want him to react
for example tell him you want to lube him up, masaging gently before slowly sliding the dildo deep into him. . .
you might feel uncomfortable at first, but if he likes it, then you'll start to enjoy it to
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reader, holikdad +, writes (17 June 2009):
Unfortunately Lacy that's one you'll have to learn with experience.
Try saying small things like "I want you", or "I want to feel you in me", then you can gauge his reaction and start getting dirtier if you think that's not enough.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (17 June 2009):
 If you are feeling sexy then the chatter becomes more sexy, however if you are forcing yourself you end up sounding more like you are suffering from Tourette's Syndrome.
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reader, LacyLace +, writes (17 June 2009):
LacyLace is verified as being by the original poster of the question i am into the sexting its just that i dont know how or wat to say to wat he wants to do.
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reader, holikdad +, writes (17 June 2009):
That's a tough one. Usually I find that with sex talk you're either into it or not. It's difficult to make yourself do it, or like it.
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