A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi there, i guess my question is simple one.... Sometimes he will just ignore me with out giving an indicataion of What i done wrong. He will break my down so badly, and later on I'll tell him about it, and then he will say i never meant it like that or you have taken it up the wrong way.... I have noticed that at times when he wants to go out or spend the other afternoon with me it always turns into a sexual matter.. He will only text me if he misses me which ends up sexually again.. I cant keep begging him and nagging him to spend with me without it turning into something sexual.. Ever since his ex-wife left his not been the same person.. His cold towards females, he always says he cant love again and he wont, he wont even think about it, she hurt him badly, and i know he needs time to heal, I really dont know what i'm doing wrong....i dont want to fix something that is not broken but i would like him to know i do care and love him very much, and I'll wait for as long as can for him to be whole again....being second best is really starting to get to me.. I dont want to be his sex puppet or someone he can be anger with because of the rest of the world.. I want to be there through thick and thin, good and bad... What can i do? I have tried to do more work, start a hobby so i dont call him 10 times a day.... I still miss him so much in day i wish i could tell him but then his upset again... What is wrong with me?... We have been seeing each other for a year and half now...
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