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writes:im 18 years old and i have a boyfreind who ive been with for almost 3 years on and off. i have a frend from a diffrent country who ive known just under a year, and im fallen for him and he feels the same way about me. Coz my boyfrend and i have been on and off so long, i dont have feelings for him like i used to. but we have a 1 year old child, so i feeling awkward.im worried if i leave my boyfrend, he will have nowhere to go. but if i get with my frend, im not sure whether he will go back and have an arranged marriage and kids.i dont know what to do please help me as soon as possible before i make the wrong decision. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank u so much 4 helping me just and update on what happened, bf and i split 6 months ago. the other guy still loves me but i am not talking much to him and i got a new fiance in bristol who loves me and adores my lil boy ...ty
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reader, claire554  +, writes (17 June 2009):
it looks to me like you have a new bright future ahead with your new man and a baby. the child needs the right father too so hopefully youll do the best for you and for your baby.
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reader, niki20 +, writes (17 June 2009):
 do you still love your bf. or are you on love w/him? there is a differance. do you want to make it work with your bf? i dont think you should date the other guy if you do have a relationship and you wind up w/another baby (not saying anything bad just an example) and he goes back and does have an arranged marriage what would you do? i think you are having "clouded thoughts" about your bf b/c there is another man and you do have feelings for him, your not going to be able to focus on who exactly you want. try not talking to from out of the country guy and see what happens. im guessing he has an indian heritage, if he is then he must have strong religious outlooks and dating might not be in the books. im here if you need me msg me freely. goodluck, hope it helps. :niki20:
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