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30-35,
anonymous
writes: i have never been bad with girls...but everytime i want to tell the girl i have feelings for that i want to be with her, i chicken out. half the time she is already in a relationship, so i feel even more akward. we constantly flirt, yet i still can't build up enough courage to get together. i feel like she doesn't need me, or that i am a coward. she is the first girl i really felt this strong about. i just don't know what to do, or how she really feels about me. i just wish i knew what to do.
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reader, 584 +, writes (17 June 2009):
I am exactly the same. I have had tons of times when I almost was posotive the girl liked me and I still couldn't ask her out. I think that the more I really care about some one the more shy I get. I wish it was the other way around. I really want to tell a girl that I currently like and I have decided that I will. I think that we should not be afraid anymore, a lot of times I find myself not saying anything not because of what she will say, but because of what other people might say about it. That is just stupid highschool drama if you ask me. Good luck though, hope I could help.
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