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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Me and my partner have been together for some time now, and as far as the relationship as a whole goes we are great, he is an amazing man, and after all this time i still stand by that, however, we do have little problems in the bed room..... there are 2 things the 1st of which we have spoke about, and that is the length of time he can 'go' for. he does make up for it in foreplay, although i am longing for penatrative sex with him that lasts more than 5 minutes! We have tried lotions and sprays from the local sex shop and also kamagra (hearbal version of viagra) but nothing seemed 2 of worked so far! please can you help!!..... the 2nd is that when i orgasm i dont actually cum, its like a dry orgasm?? i have cum once before, while on my own, but i think what my problem is, is 'paranoia' what i mean is when i did cum i felt like i was peeing (is this normal?) it sounds stupid, but i have it in my head that i cant do it with him in case i am in fact orgasming so much im wettin my self! again! how stupid does that sound!!! What is making it worse is that because i have managed it now, he now feels kinda inferior, thinking its him that cant do it when in actual fact its me that cant let it! please help me with my quesions. many thanx
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reader, betty_black +, writes (17 June 2009):
 I wish i could be of specific help but theres a chinese lotion my boyfriend uses sometimes (which i persoanlly detest) and it prevents him from ejaculating for quite a while. I know it has gallbladder in the ingrediants and its sold in high street stores that sell them kind of things. But i really cant remember the name, its a very famous one and it does help!
Oh i dont know if youve tried it, but flipping into different positions and changing the pace of sex instead of just going into fast hardcore sex can help.
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (17 June 2009):
 The feeling of peeing is completely normal when you orgasm. The orgasm you had was from where you stimulated something called your g-spot. This is situated about 2 inches inside your vagina and is very hard to stimulate during intercourse.
If you search it on google you will have more of an idea of where it is and you can show your partner what to do.
Have you tried going slower when you have sex. Try and relax, control your breathing and work together during intercourse. This may sound boring and not very pleasureable hearing about it but you can have alot of fun and can bring powerfull orgasms.
If you need anymore help feel free to mail me on here.
Livia
xoxox
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