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*nonymous_jp
writes:hey so i have anotherrrr problem.my gf treats me like shit and we are in the middle of a fight yet again because she lied and somehow its my fault. ok so if she doesnt come to me for once to fix it all (she never has) ill dump her. shes become unbearable. ive been talking to other girls and i had a fall back girl that liked me that i had a thing for that i was going to be with after i dump my gf but the fallback girls best friend now likes me but i dont like her and my fall back wont go out with me coz her friend likes me.the fallbacks friend also dumped her bf coz she wants me.and now im stuck not knowing wtf is going on.i havent even met her friend and shes obsessing over me and commenting all my myspace pics etcwhat do i do??thanks
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reader, betty_black  +, writes (17 June 2009):
 There is no point in random hook ups, but theres also no point in hooking up with some just for the sake of having a partner. Its a very immature way to be. The thing is, you dont NEED a girlfriend, nobody does. Its pretty easy to cope without one, especially at your age. Dont play the field, dont go out with anyone who you dont wanna be with either. Just be alone for a while til the right girl comes along that feels mutual to you.
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reader, anonymous_jp +, writes (17 June 2009):
anonymous_jp is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhaha yeah i know after i split up play the field. i promised myself id never cheat. i dont use her as a fall back i just always considered her as a possibility. im just really confused. i dont like the girl i loved and the one i like doesnt want me and her best friend is obsessed with me. the one i choose doesnt want me :S rejection sucks. now that ive had a gf i never want to be without one, even though my one is falling apart. i dont see the point in random hookups.
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reader, betty_black +, writes (17 June 2009):
Firstly, why do you keep "fallback" girls? To get into a relationship with someone who gives you their trust and love and yet you have someone sidelined incase it doesnt work out? Thats disgusting.Secondly. If your over with your girlfriend you can pretty much have anyone you want. Ask the "fallback" whats going on and whether she still wants to hook up. If not, im sure you have someone else to fall back on.
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reader, Ms.Helper +, writes (17 June 2009):
 You must have something special if you have all these girls coming from every angle!
I agree with Gine, there's no point coming out of one relationship and straight into another, too stressful!
Have a break, play the field AFTER you have split up with gf number 1 :)
Good luck x
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