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writes:I'm a female, and I have liked one of the female teachers at my school for quite a few years. I don't think it's love, it's more a strong infatuation. I understand that I will never get anywhere with her; that was never what I wanted. People have teased me for so long about it, and I would really like it all to stop. I have been trying so hard to get the thought out of my mind, but I still can't stop thinking of her. I really don't know what to do, because they're isn't many people I can rely on. It is really ruining my life just now, because i'm constanly stressed about it. What can I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010): Its normal to feel like this at yr age - lots of guys and girls have crushes on same sex teachers, doesnt have to mean you are gay/bi, if u are thats ok! but dont stress, it will get better. I've been there, know exactly how u feel!
i had the worst crush on one of my female teacher for three years, it was terrible, i always thought about her and would always go red if ever she spoke to me, whch she hardly ever did.. it was bad, noone knew though,
i found that by trying to keep busy and focusing on other stuff, on school, hobbies out of or in school, sport, friends,(when you are with yr friends change the subject if they give you crap and tell them to stopdont talkl about her,) family, pets, even try dating or meeting new ppl it all helps,time helps, it does, really it does,
Dont try not to think of her,that stresses you out!
you will eventually not think of her anyway.. dont go out of yr way to see her at school,dont perve on her, or say hi to her, i mean if she says hi say hi back, shes a teacher and its polite, but dont look for her to say hi to, i mean before or after school or in the school yard/whatever. just keep doing yr thing. dont let yr friends give you too much crap - pay them out for something else if they do.. all in fun of course.
good luck, it will get better.
hope this helps somehow.
sa Ive been tehr and its not easy but it does get better, by focusing on other things then u make it easier for you crush to go wway
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