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writes:So, I really should know better but I need impartial advice. I met a 31 year old guy May 30th in a bar, through mutual friends. We chatted and he asked me out on a date, later during that night we kissed and returned to his house for more kissing. After that he dropped me home and we planned our first official date. It occured on June 5th, he picked me up and we went for a drive, got some food and went for a walk on the beach. He asked me for a second date, and he was gonna cook but then his grandmother passed away (true!) and he got the flu (also true!) so I eventually ended up meeting him last saturday and we went to his house and had sex, he dropped me home and said he would call later that evening, but he didn't which was fine because I knew he was out with the boys and I'm okay with given them man time. I sent a text and was expecting to hear back. I still haven't so much so I sent another one earlier and still nothing. Now, there was great conversation, kissing, sex and an emotional crisis (which I didn't need) but now there is no communication!! Why is that? I haven't been over eager and personally I think we are a good match. He really doesn't come across to me or our mutual friends as the sex and leave type. Opinions please... xoxoxx
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reader, PureSkinnyPosh +, writes (17 June 2009):
PureSkinnyPosh is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo, I just got a text message from the boy! He says that he is only fully better now, so I don't know what to do? Like I get it, he is older and stuff but now in all confused but very happy that he text!
Light & Love
xoxoxx
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reader, PureSkinnyPosh +, writes (17 June 2009):
PureSkinnyPosh is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys so much. I'm well able to deal with casual sex and I've had been involved in seeing guys just for sex. I think what's driving me crazy was the effort be put in and how romantic he was the entire time. Pretty sure that's why I didn't see it come. I did like him and though we would of at least had a months worth of dating. I just wouldn't of figure him for an ass. Anyway, it's his loss if he doesn't recognize how fabulous I am.
Thanks everyone.
Light & Love
Xoxoxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): Sounds like the exact same thing Im going through.
He just wanted sex. He would contact you if he was interested. Hard to accept I know but its true! Its taken me a few weeks to come to terms with the harsh reality! I really liked the guy too.
OK delete his number first of all. Do not in any way contact him. All I can say is do your best to forget about him. You dont need him (unless all you want is sex too?)
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reader, alishamarie08 +, writes (17 June 2009):
That was a hit it and quit it most likely!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): I think you need to let this one go. If he wants to see you again, he will call. Otherwise, it's possible he's just not that interested. He's gotten your texts. He will respond if he wants to. Don't send anymore texts or call again. For now you may want to assume he just didn't feel the same connection you did.
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