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female
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30-35,
*ayVee
writes: okay so my ex messages me the other day saying a bunch of very rude things to me. he was the one boy i was completely head over heals for. i mean im not gunna lie im still physically attracted to him but not so much mental. what do you think i should do. because now hes being really really nice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009): Ignore him then if he wants to speak to you again make it clear that he was rude and that if he does it again you nou speak to him again or you could ask him why but the first option is the best. rudeness is there problem not yours : )
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female
reader, pinktopaz +, writes (18 June 2009):
He's probably being nice because he wants something. Either out of boredom or he's feeling lonely. He's a jerk, don't give him the time of day. He'll just do it again-they don't change.
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reader, hijacked_dignity +, writes (18 June 2009):
Now that he's being nice? You should totally ignore him and find something else to occupy your time. I mean do you really deserve someone who is a real jerk to you one day and really nice the next? Sounds like this guy is kinda off. Or really young and immature. :P I would just stop talking to him and have some fun. Hang out with friends and stop investing time into people that treat you bad. If he was really interested, even on his bad days he would attempt to make you feel good. So step off and get some girl power!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): if hes being nice now chances are that if he said those rude things before he'll say them again :~(
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