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writes:I'm almost 20 years old and im a student. when i first started my course 3 years ago i met this guy not knowing anything about him at the time, and i fell in love with him from the first moment i met him, hes nearly 30 yrs of age. and we'v had a few good moments, sometimes we'l get along with each other more than were supose to, in a student- tutor relationships are. and itl be a bit akwads after, and a few times iv seen him checkin me out, and hes seen me checkin him out, i didnt find out untill a few moths after we'd met that he was married, and iv tried to not think about him and keep a distance from him but its just too difficult, its like hes the hot subject in my mind. a few days ago we was putting up the sumer art show, and we spent a moment alone together just us too and im 100% sure he wanted to kiss me but we was intereupted and now i dont know weather its worth telling him how i feel the next time i see him, because if he dosent feel the same about me "wich im sure he does" then we'll have the whole summer to forget about it, or weather i should try n wait another year and see how it goes. but iv never had a seriouc relationship and id be happy with just a bit of fun with him, i just need him 2 say he likes me. and if he doesnt then i gues i can move on. what do you think i should do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): Im sorry to say it, but you need to back off.
This guy is married, he is your tutor. Those two things alone should be ringing warning bells in your head.
I quote "id be happy with just a bit of fun with him, i just need him to say he likes me".
So you would be willing to jeopordise HIS marriage just for a quickie?
Do you want to be his mistress? Cause a divorce? Does he have any kids?
Also, if anything did happen and he is your tutor, well he could be sacked for gross miscounduct, YOUR grades could be questioned (favouritism, cheating etc etc etc). Would that actually achieve anything? All for a quick snog and a bit of a crush.
I think you need to stop being selfish and see the bigger picture. If you have been at college three years you will be leaving soon surely? Is this really the time to start churning up a hornets nest?
Move on and create a happy and amazing future. Dont ruin it now.
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reader, lexstar +, writes (18 June 2009):
iv had a 'relationship' with a tutor, and it was fantastic! the thrill and naughtyness of it all was such a turn on, and the fact it was forbidden made the sex so passionate and amazing.
although my fella wasnt married. which i think is a huuuuuge no-no! how would you feel in a few years time when you have a family if your fella had an affair with a younger woman?
he's allowed to look, and check you out, hes a man, he will. that doesnt mean that he'l cross that line and allow something to happen.
if your happy to have a bit of fun, be a student, find a sexy guy (or a few =p) and have as much fun as you want
you dont want the break up of a marriage on your conscience, just forget about it, have your fun and move on
hope this helps x
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