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writes:I have a friend with benefits and i am wondering how could i turn good snuggling session with her into something more? like while snuggling, try and lead on to other stuff, like sex or something.... we have only hooked up, but we 'kinda joke' around n say we want to do more...any advice??
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): I've just noticed you're an Aussie! Don't forget to say "Brace yourself Sheila". (:o)
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reader, betty_black  +, writes (17 June 2009):
 Dont lie to her and tell her you have feelings you dont because then she'll get alot more attatched and it will break her heart. Is she aware shes a FWB? or does she think shes something more? As long as she knows where she stands, just do what Uncle Phil said, but without the words. Just say "you know i think your beautiful, right?" and kiss from her lips to her neck. Slowly remove her shirt and kiss down her body and go from there....
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): It sounds like you have a friend but the way I understand what FWB means, you're not exactly getting all the benefits yet!
However, the time honoured method is to kiss her, tell her you love her to bits, you think she's the most beautiful woman on Earth and at the same time slide your hand slowly and seductively up the inside of her thigh towards - errr - you get the picture - also at the same time, placing her nearest hand onto your erection.
From what you say, you've got a better than average chance, say 60/40, of getting hot and steamy with her. Best of luck mate!
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reader, holikdad  +, writes (17 June 2009):
She's probably not joking, she's just waiting for you to make the first move. Women don't usually snuggle with a man they don't want to have sex with.
Next time try touching her intimately like on the small of her back or neck. See how she reacts, if she want's you she'll let you know.
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