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anonymous
writes:Well you see im dating my friends brother and i have liked him ever since the first day i met him and he felt the same for me. Well we started talkin then he moved out of his house and met this other girl, they dated for like 5 months and they broke up. a few days after their break up he asks me to be with him. Of coarse i said yes because i have liked him for awhile. but today while i was at work he was all sorts of twisted on alcohol and what not. But he calls me and asks for his ex girlfriend and i was like umm yeah this is def not her yah know? well he hung up on me then calls me back and acted like it never happened to my voicemail because i was so pissed off that i forwareded his phone call. I havent had a chance to talk to him because he was passed out. i really dont know how to feel about it because i know he wont remember what happend at all today. what should i do? i like him alot and i dont want something as i feel as little to break us up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): It sounds to me like he's trying to make excuses, either that or he's a complete idiot (no offence).
It's understandable that you should be confused, his excuse was weak and there's something else going on here that he wont own up to, I think you can feel that in your gut.
Be careful with this, trust what your gut tells you, it sounds like he's trying to worm his way out of this and tell you what you want to hear. Calling you by her name means he is definitely still thinking about her but he wouldn't admit that to you.
At the end of the day though, you know him better than I do so you'll know better than I whether I'm right or not. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys i talked to him and of coarse he said that he meant to call me but called me her name but while they were dating he called her my name a few times (from what he says)...im so confused
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): It sounds to me like he's on the rebound and hasn't gotten over this girl yet. It might have been a bit too soon for you two to get together.
As to what you should do, this was a mistake on his part and you need to discuss this with him because he either tried to call his ex or he meant to ring you but called you the wrong name. Neither of these things are good signs. Don't let him fob this off as a drunken mistake it's clear from this that he still has her on his mind, you should seriously consider what you want from this guy and whetehr he can actually provide it.
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