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writes:Hey, me and my girlfriend have been going out for 2 months and a half now and i love being with her and always look forward to speaking to her everynight and we are constantly speaking and she makes me so happy. I love my life at the moment.However, i am suffering really bad from guilt. i asked her out just before i went on a guys extream traveling holiday for 2 weeks. Im the youngest in the group by 5 years, im 16. Anyway towards the end we thought we would reward ourselfs and go to a local nightclub and just relax. (Dont ask how i got in... idont know) However this nightclub was somehow a brothel... i told my dad i wanted to leave and he wouldnt, there was girls everywhere trying to do things and i was a little bit tipsy. They kept kissing me and then one of them force snoged me, i was confused at the time with all the pressure. I kissed back for like 2 seconds. And now ever since then whenever i think of it i feel really guilty... normaly id be able to shrug it off, but last night my girlfriend and i were tlaking about cheating and she said "I know u would never cheat on me" and i just feel guilty. And im not even sure if i did cheat on her... im suffering really bad from guilt and im really upset, i feel like such a twat. Please help...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): Don't even trip man you so didnt cheat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): You didnt cheat on your girlfriend as you didn't choose to do this. I agree that there is no need to tell her-dont do it just to ease your conscience as it is more than likely she won't understand the situation and will think you are just trying to play down what you "did" even if like you say, you didnt consent to it. To me, cheating is something that is done with intent, that is not what you have done. The fact that you are even so worried about this tells me that you are a really decent guy as there are a lot of lads who would have done a lot worse than this and wouldnt have given it a second thought! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): No no it wasn't cheating don't worry about it
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (12 June 2009):
 Sweetie, you didnt cheat on your girlfriend, although I am shocked that your father would be happy taking you to a brothel.......
Honeygirl
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): I agree with Kelly, you have nothing to worry about it is not your fault. Just try and forget about it as you can clearly tell you adore your girlfriend. I hope this help and that you and your girlfriend are ok you need to stop worrying so much and just forget about the trip
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (12 June 2009):
 If it was forced upon you then its not cheating. Its not worth mentioning to your girlfriend, she may get upset about it and not see it from a balanced point of view.x
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