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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Please help me! I have a crush on this guy I work with and am now thinking about asking him out. I mean, I get nervous at the thought of doing it, but I was hoping you guys could help me out with something before I do. What I'm about to describe usually happens often, but never in the same day, or at the same time... ( should make sense in a minute.).Okay, I saw my crush this morning as I was about to get something to eat from the canteen. There's three ways to get into the canteen, and I always go in the same way. This morning he was sat where I would have to pass him to get to where I needed to be. I understand this is most likely coincidence, but I spotted where he was and looked away as though I was scanning the room and not like I was looking to see if he was there. I looked back in his direction and he smiled like, a bright smile and mouthed 'hi', I did the same and carried on walking. As I was stood waiting for my food, he came over to where I was stood. He ended up talking to someone else but he was facing me, and I also had my hands in my pockets from the time I got in there and when he was stood near, he had his in his pockets too (mirroring?).Then I saw him later on in the afternoon but from a distance and he flashed the same bright smile. I looked away after I'd smiled back and when I looked again, he was still looking at me. Whilst he was looking at me, I decided to see if he'd mirror my actions again so I started playing with a bit of my hair and to my surprise, he did the exact same thing.At the end of the day as I was leaving to go home, he came up to me and it seemed like he had something to say, only one of the guys he works with was hanging around and then he just made some small talk and said 'see ya later'. So, am I reading too much into things or does it sound [to you] that there might be something there. I think there might be something but other opinions are greatly appreciated.Thank you guys x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): Well this stuff does sound cute, if you like him then give it a shot, he's obviously putting some effort into mirroring you, right? :P
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