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Ex rings me while on vacation with new g/f

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Question - (12 June 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 June 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi all

My ex is on holiday with his gf who is pregnent and last nite he rang me and he said are you missing me i repled kinda, but then i asked why he rang me and he said just seeing how you are then as we speak hes texting me.

Does anyone think deep down he still likes me even tho we split last november and he has a gf,

My mates say its strange for him to ring when hes on holiday with his gf

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A female reader, pebble United Kingdom +, writes (13 June 2009):

pebble agony auntYou shouldn't be telling a guy with a pregnant girlfriend that you 'kinda' miss him.

I'm guessing you still have feelings for him, otherwise you wouldn't be asking if he still has feelings for you.

Time to get over him and stop living in the past, he's moved on. He's having a CHILD with someone else.

Leave it well alone, that is a messy situation that no guy (and especially not this idiot) is worth being part of.

I feel bad for his girlfriend.

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A female reader, QuirkLady United States +, writes (13 June 2009):

QuirkLady agony auntIt's very strange - but he shouldn't be doing it. He is reaching out to you probably because he is stressed with a baby on the way. Hopefully he is not doing it to see if he can set you up to be a stress reliever aka side girlfriend, because you would not go for that, right?

Be polite but keep him at arm's length. If he breaks up with his girlfriend and asks you out, that's one thing, but if he's still with his girlfriend he's off limits.

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A female reader, Chippy2 United States +, writes (13 June 2009):

It very well could be control on his part. He is not near to keep an eye on you now that he is away with her. I know it sounds sick but sadly I have been through it not once but twice!

He is sick and immature! He is gonna be a father, you are part of his past. How disrepectful is that to both of you?

You and the girlfriend are both too good for him - but you are the lucky one - you are not having his baby - you are free to find someone new worthy of you.

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