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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): i would sit down and talk to him. divorce isn't always the answers to peoples problems and then decide from there.
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reader, eddie34  +, writes (12 June 2009):
 Divorce is the only answer, if you are both cheating then this is not going to work out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): Do you have any conclusive proof whatsoever that your husbnd is cheating? If not, then you're cheating out of just merely the 'fear' of his infidelity?
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (12 June 2009):
 divorce your husband if you can't be faithful to him. being cheated on doesn't justify cheating. or you could tell him and try couples counselling.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): You're both cheating? Lovely. It's so much less sad this way.
Clearly, you shouldn't be together if you both feel the need to fill your time and bodies with other people.
Looks like the end of a marraige to me.
Prehaps you shoudl both be moer careful in who you marry next time? It's supposed to be a lifelong happiness sort of thing.
~SY.
Ps... what does it have to do with anything that he's a white guy? Lol.. Just wondering.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (12 June 2009):
 well if you have no real proof about your husband cheating but you are....
then perhaps you should end it.
do you really love your husband?
if so you need to tell him what you've done is a mistake and that you want to make a go of things with him.
but if you don't love your husband anymore then you have to leave him and be with your new man if he is what makes you happy.
you have no proof your husband is cheating and i think it's because you are cheating...
but if you love this man more than your new man then you have to tell your husband what you've done and hope you can work through this.
i hope this helps.
good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): If there are children 4 to 18 years, you do one thing.
If not, you two split and get happy. Life is short.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): firstly, i wouldnt moan about your husband if i were you! he is doing exactly the same as you! you should be ashamed. there is clearly something wrong in this relationship. if you two no longer want to be with each other, tell each other so. cheating is wrong and is not the answer to your relationship. eeewwww, cheating??? what is wrong with both of you?? if your relationship is to work with your husband, both of you are to stop this nonsense and work on saving your marriage instead of being silly other wise both of you should get a divorce, coz there is no relationship here.
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