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*ildude7022
writes:hello every1 im 15 years old.n i was wondering if ya can give me an advise plezz its very ergent??ok..see i have these spots on my penis there called Fordyce spots. i had these sinces i was 11. at 1st i was like wut ever u now. but then n the past 2 years it got worst i was afriad of asking my parents bout this. but n the age of 14. i had balls n told me pops. he said i was going 2 sum things. i think he ment purudy. i tol dhim 2 take me 2 the doctor. he did the dic siad it was normal but idk i was so scared i started asking hime lots of questions lyk if its STDs, HIV, ADIS, Herpys, Gentelvi warts, Yeast, all of that. he said now. he didnt say wut it was. but i couldnt stop thinking bout it i was really scared lost of thinks wer going 2 my head lyk wut if my family got it cuz of me. u now. but i found out be enternet.it took me 2 this site. my second question was. i have this girl well she my girl friend we be dateing 5 mounth n 1 week. we felt deply n love. i have told everything bout me. but not this. iom so scared she lives me. but i really am deply n love with her. idk wut 2 do. 2day is the second last day of skool. me n her are virgins. we always say we want 2 have sex. she says n i say that we wont each other to be our 1st. but idk if i should tell her or not tell her n do it. im really scared idk wut 2 do..i ask her if i had aids or hiv would she every be with me.she said yea that she really love me. but idk wut shoukd i do. ithink 2morrw wer gion 2 do it. i really want 2 do it with her.i will use a condom. but idk if should i do it with this on my penis. lot of sh** is goin 2 my head.plez hear me out i need help ASAP.i heard this places will help me alot(FREAKIN OUT)Thank You...=)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): Male and female anon, criticizing him for his writing is not helpful and is utterly childish especially seeing neither of you have perfect writing skills, he's writing in text speak, it's quite common and is by no means, an indication of his academic writing skills. Female anon, "OMG" is also text speak, and you repeated "if you". Male anon homeroom as an adjective is one word "homeroom teacher". See? Is that in anyway helpful to you? No, it's just ignorant.
Lildude7022 don't freak out over this, you are young and these spots are normal and quite common. Remember she's most likely just as nervous about her body as you are about yours. There's no need to mention this to her because it's not a big deal, if she asks about them, then you should tell her, other than that there is no need. Relax, if you don't feel you're ready to sleep with her then don't, but don't let these spots be the reason.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): Looks like your problem is benign but your writing is atrocious. Please make sure you see your home room teacher and tell him/her that you need help with your writing skills. I would also ask your parents to see if they can get you a tutor to help as well. You need to fix this soon as your future career and job prospects are dependent on your reading and writing skills.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): OMG! Learn how to write correctly first. I promise it will bring you a lot of problems at school if you if you are accustomed to write like this.
You should not say anything just yet because she's not your wife yet so you must not show her your penis for any reason.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (12 June 2009):
 According to the Wikipedia, "Fordyce's Spots are very common in adult males (50-90%). The condition can appear either as a single lesion or in a symmetrical group of up to one hundred. The spots are typically 1-3mm in diameter". The same article indicates that they appear as you grow. And they are not infectious, or the sign of a disease, or anything; they just grow.
So, you're just worried whether you're "normal". You are.
Check this if you want:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fordyce's_spot
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reader, xokrkox13 +, writes (12 June 2009):
Hello, my advice to you is that you should do what your heart tells you too. Your heart is telling you that you love her and that she loves you and if she truly does than she won't mind. You don't need to tell her but maybe if she asks just say oh that's nothing I promise.. Most girls at the age of 15 if they are still virgins aren't very clear as to what the penis is supposed to look like.
Also if you really are scared about it, try going for a hand job before sex. You obviously haven't done anything like that because if you did you wouldn't be worried about what she would think about your penis, she would have already seen it.. If you need anymore help just message me. I lost my virginity at 14 and I really could help youuu.
Hope everything works outttt=)
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