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*wenabee
writes:I lost my virginity a few weeks ago to my boyfriend, and it was painful and there was blood. We've been continuing to have sex since, I have the conctraceptive implant (Implanon) so we have stopped using condoms in order to feel eachother properly. Implanon is actually more effective than condoms, so no pregnancy worries ;)We've been having sex since, and while we both really enjoy it, I can never reach orgasm, not even through just touching clitoris/fingering/cunnilingus. The thing that confuses me is that when I masturbate, I can usually climax in a matter of minutes. I really do love him, and I hate faking orgasms, I don't want to tell him that I haven't been cumming because I don't want to hurt his feelings!It may seem rather selfish of me to be chasing after an orgasm, but it's not that I want to be satisfied or anything, I just really want that feeling of complete release, trusting him completely.Any ideas that anyone has that can help, or previous experiences that you can share will be greatly appreciated.Thanks for any help!!xx
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reader, Gwenabee +, writes (13 June 2009):
Gwenabee is verified as being by the original poster of the question Kelly; Yes, we have both been checked, and shown eachother test results. We wouldn't have sex without a condom otherwise.
Samii; Yeah, it's just really difficult yknow?? I mean, I trust him and everything, it's just I don't want to hurt him by A) admitting that I lied to him and B) making him think that he can't pleasure me!!
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (12 June 2009):
 Yes you may be covered for pregnancy but implanon doesn't stop STI and STD! Have you both been checked? If not then don't you think its stupid to stop using a condom?
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