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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have got stuck in a rut of not going out and only spending time with each other. Now we're both feeling a bit bored in the relationship, sex has suffered, and we want to bring back the spark.I miss socialising, I would like us to go out in a group with people and do things, drinking, cinema, meals etc.But the problem is, neither of us actually meshes well with the others' group of friends.How do we work around this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): You should both have a night out each week/month where you go out WITHOUT each other with your own friends! Its good to socialise apart, as it helps you to reconnect with yourself as a person rather than a one half of a couple. All healthy relationships require the couple to spend some social time apart and you can't make everyone get on.It is possible that the longer you are together the more likely you are to establish mutual friendships and this will add yet another dimension to your relationship!Good luck!xxxx
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