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writes:My girlfriend is going through depression. She doesn't talk to me, touch me or anything. However she still invited me up to her cabin with her parents this weekend. It hurts me to be around her knowing how happy we were before she got depressed so I'm wondering do I go or do I just let her be, and give her space so she can relax without me around??
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reader, Skellington +, writes (13 June 2009):
 Look after her, find out what's bugging her, talk to her about it, try to help.
Just make sure you know what you're going to say and how you're going to say it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): I think you should go with her. Just think about the things that you will say to her before you do so she wont be angery or even worried about something you bring up. I would also consider talking to her parents about her depression, bc she may need counceling and her parents maybe the only advice she will fully take to heart. Anyways she envited you so obviously you bring her some peace. She may become even more depressed if you dont go. If your position was hers and you were depressed and you invited her to go with you and your parents, then she desited not to go, how would that make you feel. Remember to give her massages bc shes probably really tence and her bones may even be aching, and she may be tired a lot from the stress. Make a bubble bath for her ones and a while, with the bubble bath salts or beads.
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