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writes:Were friends and his bestfriend and I used to have this weird 'more-than-friends-but-less-than-lovers' thing going on until he(bestfriend) cleared out that he did not like me.Then he (the guy in question; not the 'bestfriend') started complimenting me a lot, saying how pretty I was and how a lot of guys had a crush on me, like him. I pretty much thought that he was joking since he and my friend kept on joking around with each other (acting like a couple, being all jealous and stuff). I just kept quiet and smiled when he complimented and tried being sarcastic about it. And there was this one time when he was holding all the drinks and refused to give it until someone hug him (us girls had asked him to get us drinks) and my friend tried to but he said no and that he wanted me to do it. I also remember him asking if I was free on Sunday but when I said no (had work to do) he was like "Shame. I was going to ask you out."Silly, really.But when I tried asking him a favor (I was asking him if he could pass a long a love note to a guy. I didn't tell him that it was from a friend of mine), he snapped at me and said some really mean things. He and his bestfriend had just fought (I hadn't noticed until it was too late) and his bestfriend told him not to do it.And then he walked out.Ever since then, he's been acting annoyed/angry at me and when I tried talking to him, he just snobbed me. I've caught him and his bestfriend staring at me (separately; sometimes together). But they won't talk to me (I don't really talk to his bestfriend, too awkward).What's going on? I don't understand anything! I didn't even do anything to piss them both off. I'm so confused. What is up with the both of `em?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): Girl.. you hurt his pride.. he OBVIOUSLY liked you. He even said he was going to ask you out, and then you tried to ask him to give a love note to another guy?
That's hurtful and a rude way to shove it in his face that you don't like him.
Friends pack together. If one is mad, then allt he other friend support him, so that explains why they're both mad.
Correct me if i've misread this, as it was a tad confusing. Next time, you may want to try using fake names.
~SY.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (12 June 2009):
 hun i think the one guy whom you asked to pass a love note onto some other guy is really into you and feels hurt that you were asking him to pass a love note on to some other guy.
whether or not it was for you or a friend he's really into you and wants you to acknowledge that.
the other guy i don't know what's up with him he's probably jealous because he does like you as well but also knows his mate likes you.
anyways if you like this guy whom you asked to pass a love note on for your friend then ask him out get with him he clearly likes you hun.
ask him to hang out with you sometime.
Hope this helps hun.
xxxxxxx good luck :)
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