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Sexless marriage and fantasies about my mother in law!

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Question - (12 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My wife and I haven't had sex in almost a year. Any advances towards my wife were usually rejected, but my advances have lessened. Relationship seems fine otherwise. One thing that others have noticed as unusual in a good way is that I am very close with her mother. Nothing has happened... I've never cheated, and haven't never done anything with my mother-in-law.

The crazy thing now is that when I masturbate all I think about is her mom. It's crazy, I know... You might say it's sick, but if you saw her you'd understand. From a purely physical sense she is absolutely gorgeous. This has been going on for almost 6 months. I'll admit.. I love the fantasies, but I can't live this way. Don't really know what to do.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009):

cut the apron string with mom in law- every time you mastubate and think of you mom in law i hope a clear picture of your own mother enters your head. then instead of it feeling like you are f*cking your mom in law, it will actually be your mother. sick to the core!

cut the crap and work on your marriage. do not only blame your wife for the lack of sex. try fixing your marriage instead of running after your mum in law like a bitch on heat. its time to snap out of it and leave your mum in law's side. and concentrate on your wife. if you spend at least half your energy on your wife as opposed to her mother then maybe you will have a better marriage.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009):

yes, you havent had sex for a year, but that is no excuse to cheat, is it? leave those mother in law fantasies of yours! i think her title quite sums everything up. the title mother in law means mother of your spouse=no go zone!! yes she is beautiful, she may have a good character, who knows, but leave that alone! that package is for your father in law to touch. not you! also try talking to your wife about why you havnt had sex. has she lost interest in you? perhaps she thinks your cheating and is not interested in having sex with you after that. who knows? only she does. talk to her! goodluck

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