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Can I change my friend's feelings towards me?

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Question - (12 June 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So there is this friend that i like. I told my friend i liked them and well the feelings werent the same. time passed by and we got closer. however we've kissed and stuff but my friend just says they do all this because want it and that it doesnt mean a thing. The thing is they are with someone but do all this stuff. What should i do? Keep going to see if the feelings will change or stop?

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A female reader, Smellyellie United Kingdom +, writes (12 June 2009):

Smellyellie agony auntWell first of all she shouldn't be doing this stuff with you if she is in a relationship with someone else as that is classed as being unfaithful. Also you maybe shouldn't be encouraging this I know you like this person but it sounds like they are just using you to satisfie some if there own needs that maybe there partner dosent give to them.

By the sounds of it this persons feelings aren't going to change at all as they say they have no feelings for and just because you put out for them dosent nessicerlely mean that they will have feelings. Like I said this is called USING you.

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