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My fiance wants to watch me with another woman and I'm tempted!

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Question - (12 June 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok, my fiance of 2 years been together 4 years and have 2 kids asked if i was intersted in being with another women, he just wanted to watch.. yeah as life gets shorter i start to get curious and now im kinda thinking about it but i really dont know how to pick the person and if i pick that someone if i pick that someone will i lose him or will he lose me.. my mom is gay and very happy. he also said though he would think about marriage.. what shopuld say or do???

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009):

You are just considering this because you think you'll lose him so he's probably told you he won't marry you unless you do it. What a jerk. You wrote in here before about this and he put it in a much cruder way.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009):

You're so very young and innocent. What are you going to do the next time he asks to have a threesome and then an orgy...

Curiosity kills. If you are really curious I say wait a decade until your relationship with your partner is solid and then see if he is still interested. Why give away the hen with the golden eggs so soon?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009):

My advise would be don't ... I am seperated as of today for allowing an open relationship. It has ruined my life. I have 3 kids in my early 30's and now ... alone.

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A female reader, marasaur United States +, writes (12 June 2009):

wow o.o

this doesnt sound very unusual.

ur curious so its ur choice.

and he wants porn xD

but its really ur decision hun.

u might like it and guaranteed he will.

everything is worth at least one try.

but limit yourself to the necessities sometimes.

if u really want to, then go for it.

but im just a 14 yr old girl xD

hav a nice day nyaaa X3

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009):

Ok.. did he say he would think about mararige if you do this? Is this the defining point of whether or not you get married?

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