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writes:Hi, I've been sexually active for about 3 years now. When I make love to my fiance sometimes I don't feel it. I always fake it because I don't know what I am supposed to feel but I will finish. I get wet and I finish pretty much every time but it doesn't feel good it just feels like whatever. My Fiance thinks he's the man so I could never tell him otherwise but does anyone know why I don't feel it even though I finish?? Is it just that I am wet and not really finishing? Also when I do have sex and go to the bathroom afterwards it burns a lot.. Is that normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): Uniquescreenname is dead on. You've never had an orgasm. Some women I've heard have been having sex for ten years and never orgasmed. They don't even realize what they are missing. 25% of women never orgasm from normal coitus.
You'll have to see your doctor and hit the books.
You need to be honest with your partner for your relationship to flourish. Sex is the biggy in relationships and when it is not satisfying to both partners it rears its ugly head and snaps causing major havoc. Best to deal with this now that you know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): from a guy...
First, know that few women orgasm from just penetrative sex, there needs to be abundant foreplay. How much varies from person to person.
Tell him about it, but carefully. Don't underestimate him. He really likes you and would probably do anything that helps you. The orgasm from ejaculation lasts a couple of minutes but the feeling that we made our girl "finish" lasts for days.
Think ahead, and once you explain it carefully, he will be very, very eager to help you investigate exactly what makes you finish.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeahh. like when I say finish I mean like I cum but I don't feel like I am going to like there is no climax or anything it is just like I cum and that's it...
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