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writes:I am a 14 year old female, and am in love with [at least have a huge crush on] one of my friends. She is also 14 and a girl. I'm not sure if she likes me the way i like her. At times I think she does, and at others it seems like she doesn't. About 3 months ago she slept over at my house, and we spent most of the night on my bed just talking about random things, such as how life was, and after a while we started kissing. That's the only thing we did that night, until she fell asleep.After that night, she never mentioned anything that happened. Does this mean she only likes me as a friend and regrets it? Or does she just not feel like mentioning it?There is another male friend of mine who also deeply likes her, and her ex-boyfriend is still deeply in love with her.What would be the best thing for me to do? please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): I think the easiest way to get your answer is to invite her over again, ask her if she'd like to spend the time - like before. Actually, I imagine she does not wish for a repeat because it was 3 months ago and I reckon she would have asked YOU if she could stay again, if she was at all interested.
Anyway, good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): Talk to her about it in a friendly, funny kind of way. As long as you don't make a big deal out of it she'll tell you what she thought of it.
There is nothing you can do until you know how she feels so find that out first.
Come back here again when you have your answer if you want and we'll try and help you decide what you should do next.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (12 June 2009):
 if you want to know how she feels about the situation then try talking to her about it.
if she's your friend she should understand that you want to talk about what happend and want to know where you stand with her.
talk to her and ask her what she felt that night and if it's the same as you do.
otherwise you'll spend the rest of your life never knowing and at least if she doesn't feel the same you know you can move on.
she's your friend she should be able to talk to you about it she maybe waiting for you to say something because she may feel you felt awkward.
hope this helps sweety.
good luck :) x x x keep me updated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): Nothing, just forget it happened, don't mention it to her , she will mention it at some point if she is gay.
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