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writes:okay so i really like this guy and i'm pretty sure he likes me back. he is always trying to get my attention and make me laugh and teasing me etc. but i'm kind of confused as to whether or not i'm sending the right signs. he acts like a jerk (joking around). so today while i was helping him study he said something like "you better be teaching me right" and i siad back "ok i'll try ____." and i roled my eyes and shook my head. i thought i was smiling too but maybe not. he responded "you know i'm only kidding right?" and he has said this once before too for something else. do i not seem like i know hes being sarcastic or is he just stupid? becuase i'm almost positive that he deffinately likes me and i want him to think that i like him too. should i be more foward like with touching and complimenting him? what should i do?
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reader, Lildude7022 +, writes (12 June 2009):
hey...
well i now want u been throw..ur all lyk damm wut should i do..i want 2 go throw his head n see wut he really thinks of me..i want 2 be with him.but im worrie if he just deny me.i now that going throw ur head. n my answered i would have a 1 on 1 talk..if u reallyy like him lyk u say u do n i now u want him 2 now..but u just dont now how right??? talk 2 him get closer 2 him..n then ask wut do u see n gurls..i now hes going 2 anser u bout wut he lyks bout gurl.n just be lyk do u considerd me as that gurl??nif he says things ur good at..hey go 4 it..
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reader, marasaur +, writes (12 June 2009):
hmm im 14 so i have to deal with this all of the time..
with all of the drama always wearing me out, i usually just act myself because i know that guys can be JUST FLIRTING alot of the time.
and things like, them thnking that they like you but just at the time that they are around you.
like me sometimes i start to like the guy im hangin out with and thnk to myself "wow hes funny and cute. f he asks me out i'd say yes"
but in reality, i dont.
i want a guy that keeps himself in my head and makes me feel like im safe, but an idiot, but at the same time, smart. im sorry for rambling. back to the q.
you could try, NOT BEING MEAN, but push him around playfully. and once in awhile, just laugh and smile at him.
and show him tht you like him without being too straight forward.
then, when you feel that you cant take it anymore, tell him, orrrr if HE cant take it anymore, HE'LL tell YOU.
i hope it all works out for you. im just a 14 yr old girl so dun take this answer seriously.
have a nie day nyaaa X3
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): I guess you are indeed sending the wrong signs, usually a girl would smile and have a favorable look on her face. If you made a joke and I shook my head and rolled my eyes then said "ok" what would you think? We always would like to know what the other is thinking but we can't so we judge from their facial expressions and stuff women say...if you don't show interest then we wont move forward...pretty logical if you think about it but that's how guys are..."logical".
But i guess U need some women advice here, coz I wouldnt wanna be called stupid. lol
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