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writes:Okay last year when I was 15 i had this really hot teacher I didn't like her at first but she grew on me. Now I can't stop thinking about her. I mean I think about her so much that I can't stand it. Every day and night she is always on my mind.I know we can never be together but I think about it all the time. She is in a religion where she cannot divorce her husband and they seem happy plus she has two kids anyway. I had a girlfriend but I could not focus on her knowing that I am in love with someone else. So I broke up with my girlfriend. Even when I play sports I think about her. Nothing I do seems to keep her off my mind. It has gotten to the point where I googled her, found out where she lives past places she lived, previous occupations, her husbands stuff,relative names and I found out that I only live 6 minutes away from her. One day I'm scared that I might walk up to her house and just let it all pour out. I always dream about her so I love to sleep so I can dream. It has been almost a year since I was in her class and now it is summer time and I can't stop thinking about her. Every little thing I do reminds me of her. I always walked the halls just hoping to see her. My heart jumps every time I see her. She doesn't know that I love her because I keep my distance. PLEASE HELP ME I can't take this any more I need to get her off my mind I tried to find someone younger and play sports/instruments. I just want to run away with her and start a new life and I don't just lust after her I love her personality. What can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2009): The best solution is to get far from her. As you do not see someone, you forget him/her. It will go away. It might take some time. Do not meet, do not keep any items... concentrate on sports.
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reader, kitty_3 +, writes (13 June 2009):
 awww! trust me, i completely get it. i wouldn't go to a counselor in school, but maybe a therapist? sometimes it helps to vent.and avoid seeing her. it'll hurt. alot. but it really helps.and when you graduate (i assume) it'll get a lot better. at least, that's what i've heard but i haven't yet so i wouldn't know...
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): I was just like you and I saw the school councellor.
She councelled me (in privacy) and It helped me to get over him.
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reader, cindy888 +, writes (12 June 2009):
Lol, you'll grow weary of not being able to have someone that you can spend time with that returns your affections. you are obsessed and maybe you have an obsessive personality and then you will find yourself obsessed with someone new. I don't think you are creepy, just a kid with raging hormones that have been targeted at one person. Some kids obsess over porn or video games or sports but you obsess over people! Be careful because this may scare off the next girl you get attached to.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (12 June 2009):
It's just not going to happen. You're 15 and she probably has absolutely no interest in you! I would suggest not going to her house ever, or looking up her personal information--it's seriously bizarre. Stay away from her, hopefully her husband doesn't own a gun and want to use it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): Dude, you have to got to get over this woman. You are turning into a little creep; one that broke up with their girlfriend to keep thinking about another (older and happily married with kids) woman without feeling guilty. Stop while you still have your sanity and no criminal record.
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