A
male
age
51-59,
*on doughie
writes:I am having an affair with a married woman . I was working on her home and she began to tell me that she was very unhappily married and that her husband had not given her a sexual orgasm in 8 years . I told her that she should get counseling but She said He would not go . I became close friends with her and her husband and She and I both emotionally fell in love for 6 months before we had sex . I asked her to leave Him or I would wait for her to divorce Him and I would marry her but I sensed that if i did not have sex with her She would make no commitments for a future -She wanted to ride the pony before She bought the horse . I made her promise me that She was definetly leaving her husband before I ever touched her sexually . She swore it was over with Him but said she could not leave him because of the kids until the timing was right so She could get a large amount of cash in the divorce . We have been having hardcore , vigorous sex and it has been powerful and passionate for about a year now -we get together every 2 weeks or so for 3-5 days straight and we totally go for it and I give her a good seeing too but I dont know what to do anymore . I dont have much money and Her husband will have a lot of money and I don't think She will ever leave him . It would not be wise for her unless I can make a lot of money and well... that aint me . I want to be with her forever but She is a liar and is well - a cheater and I dont know if She will ever be true to me because She lies so easily to her husband and manipulates him I watch her do it . I Love her so much but I am really troubled that She is not gonna treat me kindly down the road . She has been good to me but I see another side of her in the way She treats Her husband and I see her do it to me now and I think She may be a cheating piece of crap . Do I wait and see if She will cheat on me because I Love Her completely or do I leave Her and suffer my broken heart with the dignity of knowing I had enough inner strength to walk away from this while I had a little self respect ?
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reader, shania  +, writes (12 June 2009):
 She's playing you for a right sucker. Walk away and find someone who will appreciate you. This woman is going nowhere, and if her husband was that bad she would of left him ages ago, in fact i bet she is still having sex with her hubby and you are the added excitement.
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