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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Ive been having sex with my boyfriend for around 2 months now, and hes my first. He seems experienced but im really not. He's done everything for me, fingering, oral, sex. And ive given him a hand job but cant bring myself to give him a blow job. I want to but every time were in bed together i start to worry about these questions i have about it: How long is it supposed to last?I mean i know its different for every man but am i supposed to carry on until he climaxes? Or if we are going to have sex after do i stop and then we have sex and he has his orgasm then? I just am not sure when to stop because i think if we are going to have sex after, does he want an orgasm through oral sex? sex? or both??Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): Satindesire is right. There are about 3 billion men in the world and so there are about 3 billion favorite ways to have sex.
Y'all talk about things. Ask him about preferences and if he doesn't ask you about preferences, just tell him.
At the restaurant they ask him if he wants his steak medium or medium-well, at the grocery they ask if he wants paper or plastic, so surely you can ask about something like this.
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