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writes: Recently, I started having feelings for this guy. He is great, and was normally really good to me. It was the first time I had really felt happy since my ex boyfriend. We had a few tiffs and decided to just stay friends, soon after that he got a girlfriend.About a week later, we started up talking again, about everything, life, friendship, family.. basically dumping all of our problems on eachother. We rekindled our feelings, and he told me he would break up with his girlfriend for me, because he really liked me more, he said he 'loved' me.Then, my ex boyfriend came back into the picture. Apologizing for everything, and saying he wanted to try again.. I told him I would, and told him I still loved him, and basically cut the other guy off..Then one of my best guy friends, said he liked me, and wanted to try it with me. The feelings have always been there - but we have never acted on them. I thought at first, I did like him, but not I feel as if I don't, but everytime I see him we act as if we are though a couple??This is all really messed up...I don't want to be with my best friend, and I am having second doubts on my ex boyfriend as well. I feel as though I miss the first guy that I wanted to be with in the first place, until others came into the picture..I am so afraid of letting go of my ex boyfriend, I'm scared of the future, and I'm scared of what will happen.. I'm scared to make the wrong desicion, but now I feel like everything is just too late.....HELP.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (14 June 2009):
 Im sorry your going through this. Thats whats so tough about life...we cannot have the luxury to choose every option. We have to make a decision and stick with it. If you constantly change your mind and flit from one guy to another without knowing what you truly want, your going to hurt people and possibly get hurt yourself. If you cannot make a decision at this time then it's probably best to withdraw completely for a while so you can figure out what to do.
Good luck
Aunty Em xxx
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