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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm afraid I made a bad choice, all I want is to be happy! Recently, I met this guy, we got along great, and he was normally really good to me. We had a few tiffs along the way though, and decided to remain friends, he soon after got a girlfriend.Lately we have been talking again, the feelings are still there, and he wanted to try to make it work. I agreed, and he was planning on breaking up with his girlfriend, because they weren't hitting it off well anyway..Well then, thats when my ex boyfriend came back into the picture. He told me that he was sorry about the past, and that he still loved me, and wanted to have a fresh start. I said, okay.. because I still love him too, I think, and then cut the other guy off...The other guy told me I broke his heart, and that he loved me and couldn't believe that I would go back to that 'low life' (his words) I ignored his feelings, and mine too..My best guy friend also confessed his feelings for me, and I thought that I had feelings for him too.. but I don't think I do anymore, but whenever we are together we act as if we though are a couple??This is really messed up! I immediatley feel guilty because my ex boyfriend thinks he is the only one for me.. But I think I made a big mistake cutting the other guy off.. but now I think its too late!! I feel like such a horrible person, and I don't know who to stick with?I'm afraid to let go of my ex boyfriend, because he is truly all I know..
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (13 June 2009):
 I know you are upset about your decision but at your age emotions are all over the place, which explains why you aren't sure which way to go. First you need to be sure about what you want and if you can't do this then make a choice and stick with it for the time being. If you make a choice and things change thats ok because that the way it is sometimes. If you want to go back to the guy whose says you broke his heart then let him know you made a mistake. If he rejects you then you will know that his heart wasn't that badly broken after all. There are lots of guys out there who I'm sure would love to be with you so if it all gets to complicated then keep your eyes open for someone better. If you have two guys wanting you I'm sure there are more looking at you wishing they were with you too.
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