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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey everyone . i hope someone could fill me in on this , or help me understanf atleast a bit i have noone to tell or ask for support and i trust alot of your opinions . me and my bf were making out and so on , told him i loved him - we say it it is ok we are supposely inlove - he asked if i did love him alot ? i said yea , asked if i will love him forever , jsut him , no one else , i said forever is a long time , he got upset and such and while we were getting dressed he mentioned that his ex gf called him - she is still in love with him - and that she is coming back to the country in 2 months ,,, he didnt say anything all day about that , and that he is promising me forever ,and i cant .. i had to leave and i txt him that i didnt mean that i wont love him forever i meant that noone can know what will happen and that i cant make promises that im 100% sre i cant keep and that i cant promise him forever when i feel insecre - about him still having feeling for his ex - ( they were so mch in love for 4 years ) . when we talked on the phone he was like what do you want ! and being rude , i cant get to get him , is it that he wants that reasrrance he had with his ex that they are gonna be together forever and stuff ! or is he just starting anything or what ? i have no experience in such stuff so let me know what you think and ask anything that would helo you understand more , thanks
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (13 June 2009):
 Sounds like he is feeling insecure after the contact with his ex. Reassure him that you love him, and that hopefully it will last a long, long time. Tell him how good he makes you feel every day and that you look forward to being with him all the time.He knows that love doesn't last forever - she is his EX, after all - he's just feeling a bit down and needs an ego stroke.
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