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We're going to have to be apart and I don't know what to do!

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Question - (12 June 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 June 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

In need of help. Me and My boyfriend have been together for 2 years now and we have a fantastic relationship! Honestly its great he makes me feel alive, we have the same dry sense of humour where only us laugh he utterly adores me and cares for me and the feeling is more than reciprocal. Anyway I won't bore you with anymore details or knock you sick with them. Anyway my problem, well not problem more in need of advice. I am off to Uni in september and I am moving away (not too far but far enough that it will be difficult to see each other). He now works and its going to be 3 years of a long term relationship. We have discussed this and don't feel that it is the end we just can't see how we are going to manage with the distance. We pratically live together and when he went away last May for a week we were both devastated. I want to know how to make this easier? We are staying togeher and will speak all the time i.e. phone, laptop and will see each other as much as possible. But how do you fill the toher gaps if there is a way? The thought of not having him with me to push me on is unbearable. Any advice will be much appreciated thanks x

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A male reader, Your friend Australia +, writes (13 June 2009):

Your friend agony auntIts going to be painful no matter what you do. Long term relationships are very difficult to maintain, you can send sms and emails but this could make you even more heartsick or possibly lessen some of the pain a little. Either way you will find out in time. You probably have friends, confide in them and ask for their support and when he is gone spend as much time with them as you can. There will be days when you won't want to get out of bed and nights when you may not be able to go to sleep. Just keep going, life will find its solution for you.

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