A
female
age
30-35,
*essmca
writes:So basically I got out of a bad relationship in July. And I'm still not over it. I have hooked up with a couple guys but I haven't felt anything with them really. I get depressed after I hook up because I think of my ex and my relationship with him. He got a girlfriend a couple weeks after we broke up and supposedly he's "in love" with her. It's really messed up. I know one thing I am thankful for is that he went to my small school and now he's moving to Atlanta. So it's less painful cause I don't have to see his face haha! I need advice still on hooking up with guys, should I be patient and wait for a guy to run after me or should I keep searching like crazy for a guy?.. I need advice on this whole situation..
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 September 2010):
 No dont go out searching for a guy, what is the rush? you are still very young and you should be out having fun with your friends and yes discussing boys but you dont need one to make you happy, first of you need to be independant and happy on your own and make yourself happy, spend time with friends laughing joking and being young, when the time is right a boy will come along but for now just enjoy being young free and single.
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reader, Ven +, writes (27 September 2010):
Hey Jessmca!
Your best bet is probably to take it easy for a while. I know it sucks when older people tell you that you are too young to be worried about stuff like this, but you have a long time ahead of you to meet guys.
So take your time, enjoy being young since you never get to do it again, and wait for life to drop the right guy into your lap.
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