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male
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:well this may sound strange i have always thought my wife is attracted to very good looking women. Recently a friend of her'S and me supposedly committed suicide and we finally were able to verify that .Long story short she used the tub twice today and i listened at the door it sounded like she was moaning ,maybe crying but later she took a shower and i took one with her during which time i fingered her and it seemed liKe she had already had orgasms ,she had been on the computer looking at her friends profile before and is and of course upset ,I guess Im just curious because her friend had moved far away and they were close friends before she moved ,just wondering if my wife has lesbian desires?
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (27 September 2010):
 What in the world?!?
Perhaps your wife has lesbian desires, but this letter you've written gives no evidence of that! It seems that your wife is grieving over her friend, and has taken two baths to relieve some of the stress and let out some tears. If that means an orgasm (I wasn't in the bathtub with her, maybe she was masturbating), I doubt it is to uncover lesbian desires, and I ESPECIALLY doubt she is masturbating over a friend who just passed away. She may have just been getting out stress.
But, I doubt she was even masturbating. I think she was probably having a good cry in the bathtub, and she was not interested in being fingered by you and is still upset about her friend's death. You should be less concerned with kinky fantasies and more concerned about being there to support your wife while she goes through losing a close friend. Good luck!
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reader, DenimandLace44 +, writes (27 September 2010):
 Maybe she did have something with this woman, or maybe not. The fact is she chose you. She is with you, and it sounds like you have a good life and a good sex life.
She may just be mourning her friend in her own way. Crying in the bath or shower is one way we deal with pain. We dont always like being on public display when we cry about personal things.
Also when we are highly stressed we do masterbate sometimes. It helps release emotions that are bottled up inside. Please don't hold that against her.
There are a few things in life that are just private. She is possibly thinking of memories that she shared with this friend, and doesnt want to share. That does not mean that she had lesbian desires. (If she did, she had put it behind her and this is a harsh and difficult time for her.)
Another thing that is a factor here is that her friend committed suicide. That is harder to process than other kinds of death. There is always a guilt factor involved. Could I have prevented it if I had called ...if I had stayed in closer contact...why didnt they reach out to me...hundreds of thoughts and what ifs.
Give her love, and support. Don't make this about something that it may not be.
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